Part 1: Introduction and Interview (4–5 minutes)
1.Do you enjoy meeting new people? Why or why not?
Yes, I enjoy meeting new people because it gives me a chance to learn about different perspectives, cultures, and experiences. I find it exciting to connect with others and discover common interests.
2.How often do you meet new people?
It depends, but I usually meet new people when I attend social gatherings, work events, or join new activities. On average, I’d say a couple of times a month.
3.Do you find it easy to make friends? Why or why not?
Sometimes it’s easy if the other person is approachable and shares similar interests. However, it can be challenging if someone is shy or if there’s a language or cultural barrier.
4.What qualities do you look for in a friend?
I value honesty, kindness, and a good sense of humor in a friend. It’s also important that they are supportive and understanding.
5.Have your ways of making friends changed since you were a child?
Yes, as a child, making friends was as simple as playing together in school. Now, it’s more about connecting through shared interests or professional networks.
Part 2: Long Turn (3–4 minutes)
Cue Card:
Describe a time when you made a new friend.
You should say:
•who this person was
•how you met
•what you did together
and explain why you became friends.
Sample Answer:
A few years ago, I made a new friend named Sarah. We met at a yoga class that I had joined to stay fit. At first, we were just casual acquaintances, but one day, we partnered up during a group activity. We discovered that we both enjoyed reading and had similar tastes in books. After the class, we decided to grab coffee together, which turned into a long conversation about our favorite authors and travel experiences.
We started attending the yoga class together regularly and even tried other activities like hiking and cooking classes. What made us become good friends was how supportive and fun she was. Sarah always had a positive attitude, and I felt comfortable sharing my thoughts with her. We’re still close friends to this day.
Part 3: Discussion (4–5 minutes)
1.Why do you think some people find it easier to make friends than others?
I think it depends on personality and confidence. Extroverted people tend to be more outgoing and open to conversations, which makes it easier for them to connect with others. On the other hand, introverted or shy individuals may find it harder to initiate interactions.
2.Do you think it is more difficult to make friends as you get older? Why or why not?
Yes, it can be more difficult because as people get older, they often become busier with work, family, and other responsibilities. This leaves less time to meet new people. Additionally, many adults already have established social circles, which might make forming new friendships more challenging.
3.How has technology changed the way people make friends?
Technology has made it much easier to connect with people. Social media platforms and apps allow individuals to meet others with similar interests, regardless of location. However, some argue that these connections can feel less personal compared to traditional face-to-face friendships.
4.Do you think online friendships are as strong as face-to-face ones? Why or why not?
It depends on the people involved. Some online friendships can be very strong if both individuals invest time and effort in the relationship. However, face-to-face friendships often feel deeper because of the physical presence and shared experiences.
5.What role do cultural differences play in forming friendships?
Cultural differences can both enhance and complicate friendships. On one hand, they provide opportunities to learn from each other. On the other hand, misunderstandings may arise due to differing communication styles or social norms. Being open-minded and respectful is key to overcoming such challenges.